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What your prostate symptoms mean and what to do next

An enlarged prostate (BPH) affects 29 to 33 percent of men 65 and older, according to the NIH. Pick the symptom that brought you here: each guide explains what it usually means, what's worth trying first and when to call a doctor, checked against NIH, AUA and MedlinePlus sources.

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Pick the one that sounds most like you. Each guide explains the usual causes, a simple check you can do at home, and the signs that mean it is time to see a doctor.

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Who writes this, and how we check it

Health information for men over 45 should be easy to read and easy to verify. Here is exactly how this site works.

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Alice Hess

Alice Hess, health researcher

Alice started researching prostate health for her father. At 76 he was getting up several times a night, and what she found helped him sleep through the night again. Now she reads the clinical studies and the medical guidelines, then turns them into guides you can actually use, with every source linked so you can check it yourself.

Alice is not a doctor or licensed clinician, and we say so on every page. Nothing here replaces a visit to your own doctor.

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  3. Each guide is rechecked every 90 days, and corrections are dated on the page.
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Everyday health after 45

Five habits worth building for your prostate

Small, low-risk routines that medical sources recommend for men with urinary symptoms, and a sensible check-up plan.

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None of these habits needs a prescription, and none of them replaces a doctor's check when a symptom is new or getting worse.

01Walk most days

Staying active is on the self-care list for an enlarged prostate. MedlinePlus notes that lack of physical activity, and cold weather, may make urinary symptoms worse.

Sources: MedlinePlus; NIDDK

02Train your pelvic floor

Kegel exercises help men as well as women with urine leakage. The usual routine: tighten for 3 to 5 seconds, relax for 3 to 5 seconds, 10 times, three times a day.

Source: MedlinePlus

03Ask about a PSA test before you are asked

Guidelines differ on timing, so bring it up yourself. The AUA suggests most men discuss a baseline PSA between 45 and 50, and earlier with Black ancestry or a strong family history.

Source: American Urological Association

04Eat so you are not straining

No single food has been shown to shrink the prostate. What helps is ordinary: enough fiber from vegetables, fruit and whole grains to prevent constipation, which puts extra pressure on the bladder.

Source: NIDDK

05Time your drinks

Spread fluids through the day instead of drinking a lot at once, go easy on alcohol and caffeine after dinner, and stop drinking about 2 hours before bed.

Source: MedlinePlus

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